I worry I'll never give my future wife kids as I can't get an erection

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a guy of 25 and am about to get married to a wonderful woman aged 23.

But we’ve never had sex.

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I have touched myself and it feels good but then my erection disappears.

I’m terrified this will happen with my wife and I’ll never be able to make sex good for her.

My worst fear is I won’t be able to get my wife pregnant and that our marriage will unravel.

I don’t have any siblings I can talk to about this and my parents have never once spoken about sex to me.

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I have heard things through friends and looked up a few things online but nothing seems to work.

I am worried sex is going to be a disaster.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Do not panic. You are going to be fine.

Exploring your sexuality is a normal thing to do but if your family have given you those feelings that sex should never be spoken about or it is dirty or taboo, these mental blocks are hard to erase.

You try to relax but there is a voice saying: “This is wrong.” Then you lose your erection.

Please know that masturbation is natural and the perfect way to learn what feels good.


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Have a wonderful wedding.

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