I’ve had over 400 dates but only a handful of women wanted a second – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met more than 400 women but only a handful wanted a second date – and none wanted to see me again after that.

At first I felt good as some women, based on the photos I’d put on the dating sites, told me I’m handsome.

I am a 39-year-old guy. I have barely had any female intimacy in my entire life. Most women say I am a lovely person but they have no interest in meeting me again.

I don’t think I am particularly attractive so never had a lot of confidence with women. It’s horrible to think I’ll be alone forever.

DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t give up hoping and trying. I doubt the problem is your photos, more likely your anxiety comes across.

Dating sites are a mixed blessing. Try joining some local clubs and societies and get involved in voluntary work.

At these, you get to know and like one another as people first, rather than just hunting for a partner.

When you feel good about yourself someone special is far more likely to walk into your life and want to stay.

My e-leaflet Finding The Love Of Your Life will help.


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