My online lover says he's single but living with his ex – can I trust him?

DEAR DEIDRE: THE guy I’m talking to online is sex obsessed and although I’d love to get in to bed with him, my mates warn me it will end badly.

He says he’s still living with his ex, but she has a new boyfriend and they are in the process of splitting up.

I’ve stalked him on social media though and everything with his girlfriend seems rosy. He posts pictures with his arms wrapped lovingly around her and they have a kid together.

He’s 30 and I’m 27 and single.

We speak a lot on the phone but only when his “ex” isn’t around. He wants me to talk dirty to him and he’s desperate for us to meet.

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I’ve sent him some explicit pictures and he’s sent some to me.

My body is telling me to get in there and enjoy it but my head is holding back . . .  for now.

DEIDRE SAYS: If you are concerned that he’s not who he says he is or he’s catfishing you, you’d be wise to think twice before bedding this guy.

Meet him to find out more about him but don’t give in to his charms unless you’re certain he is single. You don’t want to be accused of wrecking somebody’s relationship.

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