{"id":68857,"date":"2023-11-01T18:35:56","date_gmt":"2023-11-01T18:35:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celeband.com\/?p=68857"},"modified":"2023-11-01T18:35:56","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T18:35:56","slug":"my-ex-wife-cheated-so-why-am-i-the-one-on-the-sofa-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celeband.com\/lifestyle\/my-ex-wife-cheated-so-why-am-i-the-one-on-the-sofa-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My ex-wife cheated so why am I the one on the sofa? | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex cheated on me with a neighbour, and although I tried hard to forgive her, I eventually called time on our relationship.<\/p>\n
Now I\u2019m on the sofa and panicking over how I will make ends meet.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m 34, she\u2019s 32, and we have a gorgeous three-year-old daughter.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s been a terrible year. I was devastated to come home early one day and find a male neighbour on my sofa. My girlfriend said he\u2019d popped in to help her open the loft.<\/p>\n
But I could tell something underhand was going on by the shifty way he wouldn\u2019t look at me and left as quickly as he could.<\/p>\n
Eventually she admitted they had started having sex in our lounge while I was at work and our daughter was at nursery.<\/p>\n
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She said it had only happened a couple of times because she was lonely and I worked too much.<\/p>\n
But months later, I discovered it had been going on for over a year. Soon after, one of her friends let slip she\u2019d had another fling months after our daughter was born.<\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been together for 12 years but I decided enough was enough and called it a day for my own mental health. <\/p>\n
I don\u2019t hate her and we both want to stay friends. <\/p>\n
Financially we need to live together, and sometimes share a bed as our house is having building work done.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s difficult to still be living under the same roof. She doesn\u2019t seem to want to get the building work finished and is dragging it out.<\/p>\n
But I\u2019m stuck in limbo and just want to move on.<\/p>\n