{"id":69358,"date":"2023-11-25T01:15:16","date_gmt":"2023-11-25T01:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celeband.com\/?p=69358"},"modified":"2023-11-25T01:15:16","modified_gmt":"2023-11-25T01:15:16","slug":"therapist-shares-three-things-hes-dying-to-ask-clients-but-never-will","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celeband.com\/lifestyle\/therapist-shares-three-things-hes-dying-to-ask-clients-but-never-will\/","title":{"rendered":"Therapist shares three things he&apos;s dying to ask clients but never will"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>As a therapist there are three things I&#8217;m always dying to ask my clients&#8230; but I wouldn&#8217;t dare<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>Jeff Guenther is a licensed counsellor and marriage expert<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>He shared three questions he always wants to ask clients but never will<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>Read more:\u00a0Single woman asks for advice on this common dating act<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A therapist has listed three questions he will never ask clients, despite how curious he is.<\/p>\n<p>Jeff Guenther,\u00a0a licensed counsellor with a masters in marriage and family therapy, wishes he could ask to see photos of the people clients talk about along with text message conversations.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s also curious to know if clients have seen his profile appear on dating apps &#8211; but would rather they didn&#8217;t tell him.<\/p>\n<p>The American better known &#8216;Therapy Jeff&#8217; on TikTok\u00a0regularly shares his advice with fans after working in crisis support and at his own private practice for years.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/21\/12\/78045383-12773271-American_therapist_Jeff_Guenther_pictured_shared_three_things_he-a-35_1700569368062.jpg\" height=\"1056\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>American therapist\u00a0Jeff Guenther (pictured) shared three things he wants to ask his clients but never does\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>3 things a therapist will not ask you but so badly wants to. #mentalhealth #therapy #therapytiktok #therapistsontiktok #therapysessions <\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Number one &#8211; show me a picture of the person you&#8217;re going on a date with. Will this impact\u00a0<span>the type of therapy I provide for you? No it won&#8217;t.. It could, but it shouldn&#8217;t,&#8217; Jeff said in the video.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I want to see all the pictures of all the people that are in your life just based off of genuine curiosity.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Next, Jeff is curious to know if he&#8217;s been spotted on dating apps. If so, he said he would be &#8216;humiliated&#8217; and &#8216;can&#8217;t be your therapist anymore&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;So I don&#8217;t want to know, actually, do not tell me,&#8217; he said.<\/p>\n<p>Lastly, rather than paraphrasing texts, Jeff wishes his clients would read the messages out or hand him their phone to read.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Give me your phone whenever you&#8217;re describing text messages from someone that you&#8217;re complaining about in a session,&#8217; he said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I want to know every single word that was written &#8211; I don&#8217;t need a summary &#8211; but that feels very invasive.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/11\/21\/04\/78045387-12773271-_stock_image_-m-33_1700540481635.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Number one &#8211; show me a picture of the person you&#8217;re going on a date with. Will this impact the type of therapy I provide for you? No it won&#8217;t.. It could, but it shouldn&#8217;t,&#8217; Jeff said in the video (stock image)\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The short video has since exceeded more than 1.3million views and\u00a0many said they would happily give their therapist this information if they asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I would LOVE to show my therapist the gossip like this,&#8217; one wrote.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I once made my therapist a PowerPoint of the people in my life and titled it &#8216;The Reasons I&#8217;m in Therapy and Other Honorable Mentions&#8217;,&#8217; another said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Oh god. People summarise?? I make my poor therapist sit there and listen to me read them word for word with inflection,&#8217; a third wrote in disbelief.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Though another disagreed and wrote: &#8216;I will show you pictures but I NEVER give you my phone to read the text because obviously I need to paraphrase to make myself sound better.&#8217;<\/p>\n<h3>Couples often make this huge mistake at the start of a relationship<\/h3>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/relationships\/article-12773271\/What-therapists-ask-clients-Jeff-Guenther.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a therapist there are three things I&#8217;m always dying to ask my clients&#8230; but I wouldn&#8217;t dare Jeff Guenther is a licensed counsellor and marriage expert He shared three questions he always wants to ask clients but never will Read more:\u00a0Single woman asks for advice on this common dating act A therapist has listed three questions he will never [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":69357,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Therapist shares three things he&amp;apos;s dying to ask clients but never will - CELEBAND<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/celeband.com\/lifestyle\/therapist-shares-three-things-hes-dying-to-ask-clients-but-never-will\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Therapist shares three things he&amp;apos;s dying to ask clients but never will - CELEBAND\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"As a therapist there are three things I&#8217;m always dying to ask my clients&#8230; 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